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Hi everybody, this is the hundredth time I've been recording this video
I'm stopping all the time, getting it wrong... the lights are not good enough, I'm tired...
nevertheless, I want to do it and I'll keep trying till I get it right
because I want to thank you so much for you've been so many who's signed up, watched and made comments on my videos so far.
I really didn't expect that
Two weeks have passed since I loaded my first video... and everytime I see a new member it's wonderful surprise to me.
It seems like I've got billions of registered members but it's not the reality... actually I've had 581 so far
and it's a very very huge number that has far outstripped my expectations... I didn't expect it at all
I'd also like to thank Nadia Tempest from the bottom of my heart. She's a youtuber whose link-page is down here
and the day after my first video I gladly realized that she quoted my channel in one of her videos and I think that thank to her many of you got to know me.
I also thank those people who decided to share with me a piece of their private and intimate lives...
You wrote to me many private messages in which you asked for advices and dubts...
...asked for dubts?mmm... maybe not :)... you expressed your dubts, that sounds better
and I'm very honoured by it because this is precisely what I want... a relation with you all as direct as possible.
I'm not used to talk in front of a camera and I find it very difficult
because I stumble, I can't record a whole video without stopping, I have to cut it, paste fragments...
I want to get to have a relation with you all as direct as possible... also because you're the ones who inspire me a lot.
As you could see, I've alternated weighty videos with more ironic, controversial and cynic ones which reflect how I am.
In this video I'll try to be a little bit weighty, as far as I can,
because I'd like to answer to few of the questions you've asked most, in order to thank you for this little community we're building together.
No more chatting...Let's start with these questions.
I won't read them in the way you mailed them to me, but I tried to merge and sum them up.
The first question you asked is: WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX WITHOUT LOVE?
What do I think? I think that sex without love and making love with a person one knows are two different experiences.
This doesn't mean that the first is better or fairer than the second.
They both activate different energies and aspects of the self (the person) which it isn't for anybody to pass judgment upon.
So, on the one hand we find a more emotional sharing, on the other we may experience most istinctive side of ourselves focusing on the pleasure.
But I don't feel like offering a positive or negative judgment on them.
Second question, asked by girls above all: WHAT'S THE RIGHT, APPROPRIATE AND NORMAL WAY FOR A GIRL TO ***?
That's why, all is fair while respecting the self and the other.
It's an exploration itself, so be curious and conscious of your emotions and you'll find for sure your personal way, the most appropriate to you, to pleasure.
Next question by girls again: I CAN'T REACH *** THROUGH ORAL SEX, IS IT NORMAL?
There are lots of taboos and shame around oral sex
that, most of the time, push us not to be relaxed and to hold our emotions.
So, if you cannot manage to reach a certain level of excitment and relax consequently it'll be hard to reach ***.
Sometimes one might not like oral sex as *** experience so there's nothing bad in not doing it.
Sometimes it's necessary to guide our partner and let him/her know what we like and what we don't.
We always have to keep in mind that we might be unprepared for the partner's body, because he/she functions in a different way from how we do,
as well as the partner might need more information about our body
So, there's nothing bad knowing eachother from this point of view and in asking things we like and expressing what we don't.
The last question is actually a remark a girl shared with me in a private message.
She is worried because she doesn't feel like making love with her boyfriend anymore and she's very concerned about this loss of desire.
She adds that most of the time they make love in the car in a very rushed way.
It's very common for people to be concerned about this drop in *** desire.
Sometimes, we never stop thinking about what should be necessary to boost erotism, *** desire.
Obviously, in the specific experience of this girl, making love in a car it means making love in an uncomfortable place
without any chance to create a romantic situation.
In this case, the romanticism, attentions and foreplay of her boyfriend don't balance out the fact of making love in the car.
This was a specific example.
I realize that, often for many people, it's very hard think about what they really need to feel fine, to reach excitment, to share with the partner a positive experience.
Alright, these were the most requested questions you've asked so far.
I invite you to keep on writing to me about what you'd like to listen to in order to talk about it together.
Now, no more kidding ok?
Among several comments you posted, a girl told me I look like Celine Dion...
...Celine Dion is 44y.o......
.............................
I took it a bit badly